I've Found the Good in a Bad Break Up

-I've found that the one who was the dumpee is always the one who improves themselves and moves on to a better life.

-I've found out that the concept of a 'one-and-only' was totally wrong.

-I've found that I can come and go at will.

-I found out that I like to eat dinner at 5:30 - not at 7:30.

-I've found that doing laundry doesn't have to mean smelling their clothes to try and figure out what is clean and what is dirty (in that pile on the bedroom floor).

-I've found that Corn Flakes will do for dinner!

-I've found that I am unhappy only if I choose to be. It is an option.

-I've found that I truly do dislike certain types of movies and I have the option to watch only movies that I enjoy.

-I've found that one can live cheaper than two.

-I've found that I can balance my own checkbook.

-I've found that, not only am I capable of driving a car, but that I have the ability to recognize red lights and road signs.

-I've found that dating and being single can be fun.

-I've found that my friends get tired of listening to me, but that my dog will sit patiently for hours and let me wail out my tale of woe.

-But Most of All...I've found that if the phone doesn't ring, it must be my ex.

~by Tigress Luv

-I've found that I have an enormous creative reservoir, waiting to be tapped.

-I've found that I am an arrogant, selfish asshole sometimes, and that admitting my mistakes and learning from them is more important than being stubborn about being right all of the time.

-I've found that looks mean far less than I used to think they do.

-I've found that I am not alone in my feelings of break up, depression, melancholy....

-I've found that everything and everyone is here only temporarily. Everything and everyone comes and goes. We are all just passing through.

~Contributed by NR and by Tigress Luv

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